Gerald Scott “Jerry” Grady was born October 22, 1969, in Flint, Michigan, where he grew up with his five siblings. He attended Carman Ainsworth High School, graduating in 1987.
Jerry is preceded in death by his parents, William Howard Grady and Louann Calhoun Grady, and his cherished dogs, Reagan and Cissy.
Jerry leaves behind his beloved husband, Frankie Grady; and his well-loved dog, Frances. He is also survived by his siblings, Dee Andrews, Patty Dallaire, Keith Grady (Becky), Christina Grady and Robbie Grady (Heather Sipes); his in-laws, Ervin and Trisha Brumfield, Diana Rosewater, Dakota Brumfield (Destiny Noland), Grace Brumfield and Nanny Carol Taylor; nephew, Dylan Grady; numerous nieces and nephews; four great-nephews, godchildren, Julie, Cash and Xavier; along with many extended family members and numerous close and special friends.
Around 2000, Jerry decided to head for warmer weather and moved to the Gulf Coast. He thrived in his new community, eventually joining the B-Bob’s Family, where he spent decades and becoming an icon in the local LGBTQ+ Community. In 2019, he was the proud recipient of the Best Bartender in Mobile Nappie Award. He was also a proud member of the Gulf Bartending Staff in Orange Beach and worked in the VIP tent for the Hangout Music Festival. Jerry took great pride in his work and was loved by all.
In 2016, Jerry met Frankie, the love of his life, and embarked on a 10-year fairytale romance. Extremely active in his community, Jerry raised so much money for cancer and other worthy causes. He participated in Bras for a Cause, the Chili Cookoff, the Red Dress Run in New Orleans and other fundraising events every year that he could. His kindness and generosity have touched so many. He was always willing to help whoever needed it. He was an inspiration to all who knew him. The comments that have been pouring in since Jerry’s death are a testament to what a kind and amazing person he was. He was truly a great man! He will be forever missed.
A celebration of his life will be held in Mobile at a place and date still to be determined.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you contribute to his send off, via the GoFundMe page that has been set up, celebrating the life of Jerry Grady, to help with Jerry’s lingering medical bills and final expenses; or make a donation in his name to the Trevor Project.
Hughes Funeral Home, 26209 Pollard Road, Daphne, AL, is assistsing the family.
Jerry Grady Fly High and Godspeed. Thank you for your Fabulous & Wonderful Spirit.
When a candle flickers out for the last time, another can be lit, but the light never quite looks the same. That’s Jerry. Everyone seems to have their own personal story about a Jerry encounter or two. And it was always positive. It’s called “touching people’s lives” and Jerry did it effortlessly. We will miss him.
We loved like brothers, we fought like brothers, we laughed and partied like brothers and you will always be loved and missed my brother.
Jerry didn’t leave us when he passed, he became the quiet courage in our hearts, the kindness in our actions, and the invisible thread that keeps our community loving a little deeper, because a life that truly touched others in a meaningful way does not end, it echoes.
Jerry always made folks feel welcomed
I met Jerry back during early 2000’s when they were playing softball and bowling. Fun times.
Rest easy my friend.
Only the good die young, super funny and carried the weight of the world with a smile and a laugh, fantastic person- always a laugh
Easy Up Jim Walker
Jerry is my beloved little brother I will forever miss him. I always will have wonderful memories of fun times and adventures I am heartbroken as we all are. RIP.
Jerry was my friend. He was genuinely great. I will miss him. Thanks for all the fond memories. Till Valhalla.