In Loving Memory

Robert “Bob” Stauffer

April 15, 1946 - March 2, 2024


Robert Allen Stauffer, 77, passed away peacefully on Saturday, March 2, 2024, with his wife at his side.

Bob was born on April 15, 1946, to Beverly and Clara Stauffer in Grand Rapids, Michigan. He was raised there with his five siblings, Denny, Patti, Gordy, Jan, and Mark.  After Bob graduated from Union High School in 1964, he went on to join the United States Navy, where he served as a Radarman Second Class E-5 until his honorable discharge in 1967.

Bob met the love of his life, Becky, in 1967 and knew she was the one after only three dates. They were married February 17, 1968, and went on to spend 56 blessed years together. They began to build a life and a family, welcoming daughters Renee, Robyn and Roxanne. Bob was an exemplary father and human being. He embodied the best of qualities: unconditional love, strength of spirit and an unending generosity that could be seen in his care for his wife, children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.

Bob was strong willed and so very stubborn, but he also had an enormous heart and an incredible sense of humor. He was clever and full to the brim with knowledge gained through his life experiences. He will be remembered for all the heart he shared with his friends and family. He truly loved each of them — and if you knew him, you knew it.

He is survived by his loving wife, Becky; children, Renee and Ben Lyon, Robyn and Mike Heintz, and Roxanne and Dave Cook; grandchildren, Mycah and Kyle Heemstra, Zoya and Jake Devine, Audrey Heintz, Cale Lyon, Lilly Lyon, Britny and Austin Stump, Carter (USAF), Natalie, and Jensen and Ruby Cook; and his great grandchildren, Harrison and Leopold Devine, Ryder and Evelyn Heemstra, and Ethan, Addy, and AJ Stump. Bob’s life was enriched by the laughter and joy of his grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Bob is also survived by his siblings, Denny and Sandy Stauffer, Patti and Chris VanDyke, Jan and Bob Becker, and Mark and Cheryl Stauffer.

He was preceded in death by his father, Beverly; his brother, Gordy who died in Vietnam serving his country; his stepfather, Tom; his mother, Clara; and his in-laws, Paul and Lillian Burkey.

A funeral service to honor Bob’s life will be held at Martin Reformed Church, 1073 W. Allegan Street, Martin, Michigan 49070, on Friday, March 22, 2024. Gathering will begin at 10:00 AM, followed by the service at 11:30 AM. There will be a luncheon immediately following.

In lieu of flowers, please consider donations to Legacy of Hope, Alabama’s Organ and Tissue Donation Alliance. Legacy of Hope has been instrumental during this difficult time. Bob’s final act was to give the gift of life through organ and tissue donation. Donations can be made online at

Bob and Becky discussed extensively about supporting St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. St. Jude is leading the way the world understands, treats and defeats childhood cancer and other life-threatening diseases. With your support, St. Jude can provide cutting-edge treatment at no cost to families. Please consider donating so families never have to receive a bill from St. Jude for treatment, travel, housing, or food during their difficult time. Donations may be made at

Expressions of condolences for the family may be made at Hughes Funeral Home, 26209 Pollard Road, Daphne, AL, is assisting the family.


  1. LaurieSquires

    Bob would come in with his wife Becky, when I was her hairstylist.
    He was always happy,& has funny stories to share! Very warm person! My heart & prayers are with his family, even though, I know of them, that they know Bob is in Heaven… he will sure be missed.

  2. Curry Pikkaart

    My sympathies to and prayers for you all. It was a joy to be Bob’s pastor and a privilege to be his friend. I appreciated his kindness and the depth and genuine nature of his faith. he was one of a kind – and a good kind at that!

  3. Poker and Rhonda Enke

    Bob was a great friend. We spent several winters in Gulf Shores Al with Bob and Becky. He will be missed .

  4. The Smedley family

    Roxanne we love you and your family and I’m sure we would have loved your Dad too. We are sorry for your loss and will be praying for your entire family.

  5. Robert Galas

    I’m so sorry your loss Becky and Girls. I have a fond memory of being on your boat in Lake Michigan doing a day ride from Muskegon to Grand Haven. That led me one day to buying my boat. Rest in Peace Bob. Your cousin Bobby

  6. Kimberly

    Becky, my sympathies to you and your family in the Home-going of Bob. May our Lord grant you comfort and peace until you meet again. Kimberly Longstreet

  7. Case westerbeek

    My condolences go to the entire stauffer family. I have such great memories of bob as a prudential buddy. He was a man of God in his walk thru life. I will miss his mischievous smile. I feel honored having him as my friend. In your sorrow, know that Bob is receiving his reward in heaven. Case

  8. Eric Hartman

    Becky and family,
    Our prayers are with you as you celebrate the life of Bob. He came in October for a couple of adjustments and it was so good to spend extra time with him catching up. You guys had a good one!

  9. Britny Stump

    Love you Grandpa! What a remarkable God fearing man! I am truly grateful and will cherish all the memories! Love you!!! Fly high!

  10. Pat, Jackie, Jacob and Kyle Remington

    Our sympathy and loving thoughts to you Aunt Becky and family during this difficult time. Uncle Bob had a warm smile and keen sense of humor. We carry you all in our hearts.

  11. AhNee White

    Our condolences to Renee and her family for the loss of Bob. He sounds like a wonderful person, and he raised an incredible daughter. ~ Your team at Pine Lake Fund

  12. Tonia Peterson

    Our condolences to Renee and her family for the loss of her father. We always wondered where Renee’s strong will, tempered with a generous heart came from, now I know. We thank Bob for his sacrifices to country and family. His legacy of unconditional love, strength and generosity lives everyday with our interaction with Renee, and for that we are grateful for his life.

    -Your BND Team Members/Work family.

  13. Cyndi Evans

    With many thoughts and prayers for Renée in the loss of your dear father, Bob. As you mourn his loss, please know we, the Business Network Unit, your “work family”, are here for you and with you. May the joys you knew and all the wonderful times you shared with him provide comfort to you and your family.


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