In Loving Memory

Van Nicholas “Nick” Griffin

- November 27, 2020

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Van Nicholas “Nick” Griffin of Satsuma, Alabama, Bay Minette, Alabama, Fredericksburg, Virginia, San Diego, California and Silverhill , Alabama, “molted” (as he liked to put it; saying that we don’t die, we just leave one shell for a bigger, better shell; like a crab, he would say) on November 27, 2020, in his home in Silverhill, Alabama.   

Nick is survived by, his parents, Mr. & Mrs. David Wayne Perry and Kimberly Nash Griffin Perry of Silverhill, AL, sister, Natalie A. Smith (Sidney) of Bay Minette, AL and K.C. Perry of Los Angeles, CA;  brothers, Nathan Perry (Clarisa) of Thousand Oaks, CA and Matthew Perry (Yvonne) of Boulder, CO;  and an extended family of dozens.

He is preceded in death by his father, Frank Griffin of Bay Minette, AL.

Nick was intelligent, interesting, kindhearted, witty and had a passion for music and the environment. He had taught himself to play the guitar, keyboard, saxophone and Native American flute. At the time he was diagnosed with a brain tumor, he was teaching himself to play the violin.  But, first and foremost, Nick was a passionate and phenomenal guitarist and composer.

At the time Nick was diagnosed and had the subsequent first of 5 surgeries, he was in the process of transferring to University of California San Diego, majoring in music and physics. While there, not aware that at the time, he himself had a brain tumor, he had done a research paper on the efficacy of chemo & radiation on brain tumors, specifically his type, Astrocytoma. As a result of that research, his choice was to forgo chemo & radiation. He chose to have resections as needed to keep the rest of his brain tissue pristine and to remain as overall healthy as possible. This worked remarkably well, as his prognosis was 2-3 years, but he lived an additional 11 years.

As stated, Nick was passionate about the environment!  He started his own campaign of “Two Easy Pieces” and shared it with others. The idea being that if everyone picked up just two pieces of rubbish whenever they went out, then that would go a long way toward cleaning up their corner of the world. So, folks, 2 Easy Pieces, please!

Nick had an unshakable faith in God and wanted to live as God would have him. Shortly after diagnosis with the brain tumor, he remarked that it was certainly not what he wanted, but he prayed that through it, God would help him to be a better man.

Nick had a mischievous sense of humor that surfaced after his first brain surgery. He and his dad were kindred spirits in this.  Nick was forever pulling pranks or making witty remarks intended to disconcert; like telling his dad who was groaning from aches and pains, that he (Nick) should observe him more often so that he wouldn’t feel bad about dying young!  Now, how does one respond to that?! He was indeed full of “treacherous wit”!!

Nick loved the outdoors. He loved surfing, biking, hiking, and free diving . . . everything outside.  He hiked the Appalachian Trail, and he was also certified to teach and coach snow skiing and snowboarding in both the U.S. and Canada.

Nick unknowingly had a brain tumor for most his life.  He thought that everyone felt like he did, so he never complained.  But eventually, as a young man, he went through 27 medical professionals and 17 wrong diagnoses before discovering that he had a brain tumor.  Everything he accomplished, he did with an enormous tumor in his head. 

He was one of a kind!  He is greatly missed!

This has been far too long a time coming.  But, when Nick molted during Covid, gatherings were restricted. By the time those restrictions were lifted, it had been quite some time and there was no heart to dig up old sadness.   Now, as Nick’s dad, David “Wayne” Perry, has passed away as well, there will be a combined memorial for Nick and his dad, on Friday, May 15, 4:00pm, at Hughes Funeral Home, 26209 Pollard Road in Daphne, AL.

Hughes Funeral Home, 26209 Pollard Road, Daphne, AL, is assisting the family.

5 Comments

  1. Nikki Newell

    I met Nick and Kim at our San Diego brain tumor support group.
    We had a lot in common. I had the same issues my as Nick, We became good friends. We shared a lot of information we all became close friends with Nick and his parents. We shared special moments together. The trip we went on to the Sequoia national park. Its memories like that you treasure forever. Laughing at pineapple jokes, which became a theme of the trip! (You would have to be there to understand) among other hilarious moments. I soon learned about Nick’s mischievous since of humor. Quote from trip, I’m going to poke you with my cane. (One of many quotes from our trip) whenever I go back to Buckeye Lodge by the river, I will be thinking of memories of fun times laughter. To my dear friend I am honored to have met such a wonderful human being in this life journey to share the good times and bad with brain tumors. Friends like you are priceless and rare. I cherish the moments of silly fun and adventures, the long talks about existence. You are and always will be forever in my heart.

    Donadagohvi (Until we meet again)

    Your dear Cherokee friend
    Nikki Newell

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  2. Russell Newell

    Nick was a cool dude. Always kind and thinking of others, he tried to enjoy life the best he could. I liked fishing with him

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  3. Brenda Laguna

    Nick was so Amazing. I am so blessed to have known him. Thank you so much for your humor, kindness, and love of muic. I cherish our phone calls-conversations about anything from our love of waffles to our favorite bands to his unbelievable stories…that would sometimes with “No I’m just kidding.”

    I only wish we could have seen each other more. What a kind, caring, loving soul. God Bless You!

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  4. Brenda Laguna

    Nick was so Amazing. I am so blessed to have known him. Thank you so much for humor, kindness, and love of music. I cherish our phone calls-our conversations on everything from our love of waffles, to our favorite bands to his fascinating. Unbelievable stories.. Stories that would end with Naw I’m just kidding. ”
    I only wish we could seen each other more. What a kind, caring, loving soul. Will miss you very much. God Bless You!

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  5. Nicole DeLia

    Nick was such a kind hearted soul, so caring and sincere. He had both a gentleness and a strength about him, and was an inspiration to me in so many ways. Between the adventures he shared of hiking the Appalachian trail, to his musical interests and other creative endeavors, he always inspired me to see the richness of life. I know I’m so lucky to have had him as a friend, and am thankful for the times we shared. May the peace of the Lord be with Nick, Wayne, as well as his mother and family.

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